THE FINAL CHAPTER ON OUR 41,154 MILE, FOUR AND A HALF WEEK JOURNEY AROUND THE GLOBE
Well, here we are. I’m sitting on a United Airlines Flight from London Heathrow to Dulles airport outside of DC. From there we get our bags, clear customs, drag them to Delta, recheck them and catch a flight back to Atlanta on Delta. We should be at our home by 930 tonight. This flight is only 8 hours long and after some of the 12 plus hour flights, it seems like a piece of cake.
I said I would try and write my reflections on India and I have struggled with that. I am not a skilled writer and I worry that I cannot capture in written words what I feel on this topic.
I am going to put two photos below as a way of illustrating how I think about India and then explain it. Please double click on the second one so it will be enlarged and you will be able to see the details that I am going to write about better.
THE PARADOX OF INDIA


To me, the two images above represent the way I think of India. The first one is from the airport in Mumbai. In various places there are these AirTel (a phone company) Kiosks. They have 12 to 20 cords coming out of the kiosk with every kind of connector one could dream up. You can take your cell phone (always called Mobile everywhere but in the US) and plug in the connector that matches your phone and charge your phone up while you are waiting for the plane. This is a very innovative invention that I have not seen anywhere else. And while I haven’t been everywhere, I’ve been enough places to know this is not common.
The second photo is of a roadside market of sorts. It is hard for a tourist to really understand what things are because we don’t live there. It appears that every few miles there is a random collection of carts, vendors, cows, children and random men milling around. This was one of those places. As with all of the places, the ground surrounding the carts and stalls are filthy. They appear to simply take whatever they do not need and just dump it in the street. There is no other word that I know of to describe it other than squalor. This image is further compounded by the poorest of the poor who are on their hands and knees going through the garbage trying to find a scrap of paper to salvage-perhaps for writing paper. Or a piece of cow dung that can be used for fuel or the walls of a home. Or a can or bottle that can be sold.
Of course the first photo represents the promise, and I believe the future for India while the second photo represents the challenge they face. Someone said there are 310 million middle class or higher Indians. I do not know if that is right but that is more people than we have in the US. And then it begs the question “Where do the other 900 million fit in terms of economic level?” And the answer is sad.
I always try to be very sensitive when I am in India (or anywhere else) about taking photos. There are thousands of opportunities to take photos of young children dressed in rags, living under a concrete bridge at a busy intersection where they tap on your window and beg for anything you can give them. No one in India ever looks at them. The doors are locked, the windows sealed and the driver and passengers simply look straight ahead. This is not cruel-they have no choice. To acknowledge one, or to give something to one will only cause gridlock as swarms of needy people will suddenly show up.
I do not take photos of situations like this. To me, while it is part of the India I love, it is not what should be published and shared with others. I know that our colleagues in India are caring people and they have a list of charities to recommend that they give to. Some of their employees just worked on Habitat for Humanity to build housing in India and Caliber Point (our partner) supported them. But the people I have worked with, that I respect and admire and genuinely like, are the future of India.
In the meantime, as a board member of Freedom From Hunger, I know that there are exciting and encouraging things going on in India to help in the hunger issue. Through our partnerships in India we participate in a program called Reach that helps the mothers of poor children start and manage micro businesses that will at the very least, help them develop some income and a small amount of savings that will sustain them when the next flood, or draught, or plague hits them. We have a saying that “There is no person more motivated than a mother trying to feed her children” and I believe with organizations like Freedom From Hunger, with people like my colleagues at Caliber Point who are creating jobs and pushing people to be educated, over time, perhaps 50 to 100 years, poverty and hunger in India can be dramatically reduced. And I am encouraged that there is forward progress being made.
This was my third trip to India in the last two years. It was Cathy’s first. She liked the people she met and she was intellectually stimulated by the diversity of people, religions, languages and customs and she was constantly asking questions. She has an incredible curiosity about things and my favorite photo of her at the Taj is below. She was looking up close at the inlaid stones on the Taj in that wonderful way she examines and inspects everything. She has an insatiable need to understand how things work and why things are the way they are. And she has this huge intellect that allows her to absorb and remember it. She has more unusual facts in her brain than Wikipedia.

On the other hand, the amount of trash that was lying around drove her crazy. I was surprised, knowing her, that she didn’t jump out of the car, grab a broom and begin tidying up the countryside.
In the end, I hope I have many opportunities, whether with Trustmark, with Freedom from Hunger or for other reasons to return time and time again. I really like the food, the people, the chaos, the diversity of religions and I particularly like the people at Caliber Point that I know the best-Ashok, Neil, Aditi, Guhan, Kamalika and Kiran.
In our six hour layover in Singapore, I came across what is known as an Asian Bathroom. You don’t see them in Singapore normally as they are probably the most modern, clean and efficient city in the world. But seeing it reminded me of our first trip to China back in 1985, when this was the only type of bathroom you could find other than a ditch or bush. So I snapped a photo of both the outside and the inside for your viewing pleasure. The last time I saw one of these was on the Asian side of Istanbul.


CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA
We flew Business Class on Singapore Airlines to Cape Town and it was a fabulous experience with their lay flat bed seats. The trip was over 12 hours but we didn’t notice it as it was all night and we slept much of the way.
The Mount Nelson where we stayed treated us well. They brought us this enormous bouquet of flowers as soon as we checked in and we had a small suite with a balcony that greeted us with an incredible view of the famous Table Mountain.
THE MOUNT NELSON HOTEL IN CAPETOWN

THE BOUQUET

VIEW OF TABLE MOUNTAIN FROM OUR HOTEL ROOM BALCONY

And the hotel had lovely gardens as can be seen in these photos:




We did tourist stuff the seven days that we were there. We took a city tour on one of those Double Decker on and off buses and both got burned as the sun was hot and we were still taking daily Malaria medications which cause you to burn easily.
We contracted a driver and a car one day and saw the Cape of Good Hope and Cape Point with its the penguins, baboons and wild ostriches and the scenic coastal towns as well as the wine country with its wonderful town of Stellenbosch.
A JAPANESE TOURIST AT A WINERY IN STELLENBOSCH

ONE OF THE MANY COASTAL TOWNS-YOU CAN SEE THE WHITE LIGHTHOUSE IN THE DISTANCE

A VIEW OF CAPE TOWN AND ITS HARBOR FROM TABLE MOUNTAIN

A COASTAL TOWN 15 MINUTES FROM DOWNTOWN

At the Cape of Good Hope there was a busload of German tourists having a champagne breakfast and so we could never get a photo of the sign below without Germans standing there for a snapshot so I took this one and just cut out the top part of their bodies when I edited it.
THE CAPE OF GOOD HOPE SIGN

We spent two other days down along Cape Towns waterfront which has so many restaurants and shopping I can’t describe it. So I will show photos.
CAPE TOWN OCEAN FRONT SIGN THAT SAYS IT IS 16,990 KILOMETERS TO SAN FRANCISCO WHERE WE FIRST LEFT THE USA

CAPETOWN HARBOR WITH TABLE MOUNTAIN IN THE BACKGROUOND

We spent a lot of time relaxing and eating and while I passed on the Crocodile ribs, the Ostrich Neck and the Loin of Warthog, I did try some Ostrich steak and some Medallions of Springbok which is sort of like a wild antelope. We did meet up with Bernie and Joan Rabinowitz who I mentioned in a previous posting we had learned were in South Africa at the same time and we had a wonderful dinner with them at a restaurant called The Five Flies that used to be a private club. Bernie grew up in Cape Town and goes back every few years to visit.
All of our meals in Cape Town were very reasonable and particularly the wines which were all superb. At the top restaurants in Cape Town with a great wine the price all inclusive was usually less than a hundred dollars for two of us.
So, what are the pluses and minuses of going to Cape Town? Well, it is a great city reminiscent in life style to Seattle, Portland of San Francisco. It has the water, great weather, a wine country nearby that produces super wines, a relaxed feel and prices are great. It is almost as spotless as Singapore. No brooms needed here.
The only downside other than the distance is the crime. Outside of the airport there is a shantytown or “settlement” as it is called that has 1.2 million people living in tin shacks and cardboard boxes. That is one of several of these settlements and from these horrible tragic places large gangs of disenfranchised, uneducated, hungry and angry young men who you have to watch out for. In the tourist areas the police and private security firms keep you safe but venture out of the main area and you likely may not return. I never saw a home that did not have circular razor barbed wire fencing, a private firm who will react to a break in with an armed response and very mean dogs and usually an electrified fence. It is just scary and sad.
The night before we ate dinner with Bernie and Joan, they were staying in Stellenbosch and the electricity went out in the whole town because a gang of thieves had cut the central electrical supply to the entire city so that they could steal the copper wire and sell it on the black market. That is a good enough example to help you understand how serious the crime problem is.
Having said that, we enjoyed our time there immensely and both agree we would go back. The lifestyle is just great (assuming you are safe).
The last day we hung out at the hotel and did their famous High Tea in the afternoon which we felt was overpriced and over hyped but you can’t go to Cape Town they say without having High Tea at the Nellie (what the Mount Nelson is called). We checked out at 5pm and went to the very nice Cape Town airport and soon were flying another 12 plus hours all night to London on South African Airways. Their Business Class section had 42 seats, every one of which converted to an extremely comfortable bed. Cathy slept for 8 and a half hours straight which one does not normally do on a plane. I have heard that this airline ranks up their close to Singapore Air and I agree with that.
We had rented a room at the Hilton in the Heathrow airport for the day since we arrived at 8 in the morning. We ate breakfast in their Executive Lounge, went to the room and did emails and cleaned up and met Andrea about 130 in the afternoon when she arrived from her house. We visited with her and then checked out and met Lee at 330 and the four of us flew to Newcastle where Lee’s family picked us up for the start of the weekend celebration.
Over the next two nights we went to a wonderful party at La Riviera, a restaurant that sits right on the River Tyne and in a private room we had a super dinner and drank wine with Lee’s extended family and good friends of his parents. At 1130 when we finally all left there were a few folks that were on a roll.
We also had a great dinner just with Lee’s parents, Leslie and Linda and his sister Claire the other night at a wonderful Spanish Tapas place that is the most authentic Spanish food I’ve ever had outside of Spain.
On Sunday after a lunch at their home, Leslie and Linda took the four of us to the airport and we flew back to London. While waiting for the luggage I went to the bathroom and in between the many condom machines hanging on the wall was a machine that said it sold Instant Toothbrushes. You would get two for a pound (about two dollars). I thought to myself “What kind of an idiot would fall for this gimmick?” as I placed the pound coin in the slot and turned the handle.
Out of the machine I received two of what is shown in the photo below:

The machine said no water was necessary-just put it in your mouth and chew so I decided to try it. To use a common British expression, I was Gob smacked (surprised) at how hard the plastic shell was to chew but once it was digested, the little packet of toothpaste was quite tasty. Cathy tried to tell me I was supposed to open the plastic ball and take out the packet and eat it, not the plastic shell but it didn’t say that so I am sure I was right.
We left the airport and checked into the Hyatt Churchill in Central London and they (no surprise here since it is a Hyatt) gave us this huge suite that had just been remodeled. Since I was staying for free by using points that made it particularly nice. They gave us a bottle of champagne and for some reason I decided to open it while it was sitting on their new credenza that was of course sitting on their new carpet since the room had just been remodeled.
I took the foil off and the wire cage and turned around to do get some glasses and off comes the cork like one of those Iranian missiles that they claim they don’t have. The cork put a dent in the newly painted ceiling and ricocheted around the room. The champagne came gushing out like Old Faithful all over the new credenza and as I watched it (instead of grabbing a towel as I should have) it ran down the credenza and formed a cute little puddle of bubbly on the new carpet. I felt bad but was happy it wasn’t red wine.
We met Andrea and Lee for dinner at 730 at a place called Osteria Basilico and sat at the world’s smallest table. The food was okay-for some it was great and for others just so-so.
We told them good night and the next morning we flew to DC and after going through Customs we connected to Atlanta and by 10 that night we were at our home. I was worried that the Customs people would question our declaration since we had been gone over four weeks and had been to seven countries and yet our total purchases were only $400 for both of us. And we were telling the truth. But I guess we looked honest as they didn’t question it.
We started our trip by going to Wes’ first birthday party and now we were home again. It had been a long trip and a long time but we started it on such a happy note
And I want to close it on a similar happy note by sharing below my two favorite things of the trip.
MY TWO FAVORITE PHOTOS AND TWO FAVORITE THINGS OF OUR MONTH LONG TRIP AROUND THE WORLD



































































































